happy and let him know that you love him more and more each day.
Share in the responsibilities of marriage and try different
approaches to leading a happy, spontaneous life that gratifies you
and your spouse both emotionally and sexually.
A happy husband is a man who feels loved by his wife in all ways possible. In the beginning of a marriage there is romance, intimacy and warmth, but over time these feelings sometimes dissipate. It then becomes essential for a wife to do her part to strengthen the marital bond and to send reassurances her husband’s way that he is special.
There are ways to keep your husband happy for many years of marriage. The happier he is, the happier you will both be.
Paying Attention to Hubby
Stay up all night for a movie marathon. Does he have a favorite movie producer? Compile all of your hubby's favorite movies, heat up some popcorn, and waste away the night watching them all. While you might fall asleep in the process, staying up for a movie marathon can be fun and give you and your hubby some quality cuddle time at home.
When you are sitting together, quietly slip your hand into his. Your husband will love the easy expression of intimacy between you two.
Buy him a set of golf clubs or whatever sport equipment he is interested in.
Stop trying to change your husband into someone else, after all you married him for who he is.
Meet him for lunch at his office and suggest a quick bite. He will love your spontaneity and the fact that you took out time from your own schedule.
The next time you decide to eat out, let your husband choose the restaurant and the menu.
Ask him to share his fantasy with you and see if you can try it out or at least a part of it. Even if you both end up laughing, your husband will be pleased to know you care about what he wants.
Do something fun together like a trip or going for a circus show. to an amusement park
Pick up the kids from their soccer or music practice. when it is actually your husband’s turn to do so.
Go out after dinner. Put the kids in bed and steal away with your husband for an ice-cream for a stroll in the park. Your husband will be pleased at spending some quiet time with yoU.
Get some new sexy outfits. If you're constantly wallowing around the house in sweatpants, it might be time to take a trip to the mall for some new clothes. There's nothing wrong with being comfortable in front of your hubby, but be sure not to lose track of taking care of yourself as a result.
Spice up a plain outfit with a sexy blouse or dress.
Get some new lingerie. Lingerie is a sexy way to spice up your bedroom life and make your hubby see you in a new light.
Find a quiet moment with your husband and whisper I love you” in his ears. If you have already said it, say it again. You can never say these three words too often and you can be sure, that every time it will make your husband glad, he married you.
Say thank you with a smile. When your husband does an odd job around the house, thank him like you really mean it. He will know that his help is not taken for granted and he will be happy to do more.
Appreciate his interests. If your husband is into carpentry, praise the bookstand he has made, even if it wobbles just a wee bit. Or if he loves collecting coins, buy him a book on numismatics. Your interest in his hobbies will give your husband a feeling of pride and make him happy.
Don’t use the kids as an excuse. The world doesn’t stop because you become parents. How did you get that way? This especially pertains to the stay at home moms. Don’t grow apart, grow together. I understand that things are hard and chaotic, but that is life. This means that sometimes, you have to get it in when you can fit it in.
Recreate your first date and your husband is sure to be happy falling in love with you all over again.
Tell your husband to take a night out with his pals. Not only will he have a good time, but he will also be grateful for your thoughtfulness.
Put on your sexiest lingerie and get ready for an intimate evening with your husband. He will be happy to know you still desire him as a lover.
Find out your husband’s favorite after-shave and buy it for him.
Be romantic. Romance can easily become a back-burner priority after years of marriage. Make sure to save time for romantic activities like candle-lit dinners, beach walks at sunset, and cuddling up to watch a movie.
Send flirty text messages throughout the day. Sometimes nothing is better than a spontaneous text or voice message from your lover. Call just to say "I love you" or send your hubby a flirty message that contains something for him to look forward to.
Send sexy snap chats to your hubby to remind him what's waiting for him after work. Make sure to warn him that you sent a sexy snap in advance so that he doesn't open it in front of his friends, or worse, his colleagues.
Put a video or website link on his FaceBook page to something that has a special meaning to your relationship. This could be the music video to a love song or a clip of your favorite comedy show, to name a few.
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